How Do You Know When to Adopt a Cat?
“How did you know you wanted a cat?” or “Cats are much easier and more independent than dogs!”. I’ve heard these statements so many times.
Growing up, my dad always encouraged us to interact with animals, respect them, and share our lives with them. For over 20 years, I had the good fortune of living with dogs. So, when I moved out on my own at 26, the idea of adopting a cat wasn’t something I had fully considered. I had always been a dog person, and I knew that having a pet meant commitment, especially since I was working long hours.
But something about the idea of having a feline companion intrigued me. I started talking to friends who had cats, did a little research, and made a checklist of what I thought I needed as a cat owner:
- A litter box, food, and water (the basics)
- Toys off course
- A scratching post or a cat tree to prevent them from destroying my furniture
It seemed simple enough. I thought, “Okay, I can do this!” But little did I know that adopting a cat isn’t just about having the essentials. Yes, cats are more independent than dogs, but there’s so much more to consider. Here are a few things I wish I had known before bringing Simba home

1. The Transition Period
If you’re adopting a kitten, the first few days (or weeks) can be a challenge. I’ve had three kittens, and each one adapted differently. Some adjusted almost immediately, exploring the space, understanding the routine, and feeling at home right away. Others took longer, needing patience and time to feel secure. Each cat has a different background, and their adjustment process will vary. The key? Give them space and be patient.
2. Every Cat Has a Unique Personality
Just like people, no two cats are the same. Simba, for example, was extremely shy, interacted minimally with people, and preferred to keep to himself. Nala, on the other hand, is the total opposite, she’s super social, loves playing, chats all the time, and follows me everywhere. I always say she was a dog born in a cat’s body! Understanding that each cat has its own personality makes it much easier to connect with them and meet their needs.
3. Time Dedication
Even though cats are independent, they still need attention. Playing, cuddling, petting, and simply admiring them (because let’s be honest, they demand it) is part of the deal. They might not require walks like dogs, but they do need love, stimulation, and interaction.
4. A Backup Plan for When You’re Away
If you travel or have long work hours, it’s important to have someone who can check in on your cat. They might be independent, but they still need care, food, and companionship.
5. The Little Things No One Tells You
If you’re considering adopting a cat, here are a few extra things to keep in mind:
- Your phone storage will be full of cat pictures: at least 70% of my camera roll is just Simba and Nala.
- Prepare to be judged, and constantly. Cats have an incredible ability to make you feel like you’ve disappointed them, even when you haven’t.
- Unconditional love and constant company. If you think cats don’t care about their humans, think again. They’ll follow you everywhere, making sure you’re okay because in their minds, you’re part of their pack.

So, how do you know when you’re ready to adopt a cat? If you’re willing to embrace the commitment, the quirks, and the love that comes with having a feline friend, then you’re already halfway there. And trust me, life with a cat is nothing short of amazing.